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MEL’S VERBAL RAGE AND VERBAL ABUSE WERE NOT DOCTORED!
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MEL’S VERBAL RAGE AND VERBAL ABUSE WERE NOT DOCTORED!
No one can deny the amount of rage and verbal violence that came out of Mel’s lips. We all heard it! Even if the tape was edited and doctored as some have reported, there is no way that his rage and verbal abuse was doctored.
Whether she stimulated or “egged him on” as people have commented, there is still no excuse for Mel’s out of control behavior. When someone makes you that angry to the point that we have seen Mel’s anger escalate, you need to leave immediately. Get away from the person , make a legal arrangement to see you child, and never look back at the relationship!
I am not definately blaming the victim. Any relationship involves two people. I say the same to Oksana as I say to Mel. If she heard his rage escalate to the point that it did, she needed to have left him long ag. She needed to have hired an attorney and needed to have never looked back.
WHY ABUSED WOMEN DO NOT LEAVE RIGHT AWAY
But unfortunately for Oksana, like so many abused women, most do not leave right away. They stay and stay and stay, hoping things will change for the better and that things will work out. Studies show that it often takes an abused woman 7 to 11 times of breaking off and coming back to the abusive relationship before she is out for good.
So the lame excuse that Mel’s camp gave that Oksana went away with him in January doesn’t fly. Just because she went back to Me after n abusive battle, does not necessarily mean that things were fine and dandy. It means that she was doing what abused women do, especially ones with children. She was trying to make things work between them.
MEL A CLASSIC ABUSER IN THE CYCLE OF VIOLENCE
When one looks at the Cycle of Violence common to abused women, Mel Gibson, appears to fit the classic picture of an abuser to a tee. That picture of an abuser often ends in such physical violence that it can cost a woman her life. Oksana could have easily been one more statistic to the millions of women murdered at the hands of a spouse, lover, boyfriend, or companion.
The name calling (c**t, bitch, whore), the violent yelling and animal-like grunting and heavy audible respiratory patterns, the irrational comments, exaggerated claims and blame ( that he has no money- none of the 900 million dollars he allegedly has, because he spent it all on her) pushing, the hitting(allegedly damaging her teeth), lack of empathy (telling her she deserved it when she complained of his violence) the degrading control (demanding oral sex from her even though they were in conflict) life endangering threats (to burn the house down and to hit her head with a bat) are only a step away from killing a person.
If you think this seems far fetched, think again. This is EXACTLY what happened to Nicole Brown Simpson. This is EXACTLY what happened to millions of women who die each year at the hands of men they are either living with or married to. This is EXACTLY what happens to women all over the world regardless of race, religion, culture, ethnic background, financial status, occupation, or physical appearance.
WHO ARE THE ABUSERS WHO CAN KILL?
Anyone who exhibits the patterns that Mel Gibson exhibited can kill! It doesn’t matter how rich or famous they are, if they have displayed the patterns that Mel displayed, they can definitely kill. Now I am not accusing Mel of being a murderer, but if someone is that consistently enraged and out of control as we have heard Mel to be, then anything is possible.
He may be so angry that he could strike a blow, hitting her in the head, causing a subdural hematoma where she would bleed into her brain, thus tragically ending her life.
The verbally violent tapes we have heard are not of just one conversation. They are of many conversations he had over time with Oksana. The red flag here is that Mel does not change his violent tone during any of the many different conversations we have heard.
There is no point where his anger and rage is diffused. It is consistent and whenever you hear consistent rage like this that escalates, it indicates that danger is imminent.
Men who are control freaks, silent but deadly erupting volcanos, arrogant condescending know it alls often turn into both emotional and physical abusers.
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Whether she stimulated or “egged him on” as people have commented, there is still no excuse for Mel’s out of control behavior. When someone makes you that angry to the point that we have seen Mel’s anger escalate, you need to leave immediately. Get away from the person , make a legal arrangement to see you child, and never look back at the relationship!
I am not definately blaming the victim. Any relationship involves two people. I say the same to Oksana as I say to Mel. If she heard his rage escalate to the point that it did, she needed to have left him long ag. She needed to have hired an attorney and needed to have never looked back.
WHY ABUSED WOMEN DO NOT LEAVE RIGHT AWAY
But unfortunately for Oksana, like so many abused women, most do not leave right away. They stay and stay and stay, hoping things will change for the better and that things will work out. Studies show that it often takes an abused woman 7 to 11 times of breaking off and coming back to the abusive relationship before she is out for good.
So the lame excuse that Mel’s camp gave that Oksana went away with him in January doesn’t fly. Just because she went back to Me after n abusive battle, does not necessarily mean that things were fine and dandy. It means that she was doing what abused women do, especially ones with children. She was trying to make things work between them.
MEL A CLASSIC ABUSER IN THE CYCLE OF VIOLENCE
When one looks at the Cycle of Violence common to abused women, Mel Gibson, appears to fit the classic picture of an abuser to a tee. That picture of an abuser often ends in such physical violence that it can cost a woman her life. Oksana could have easily been one more statistic to the millions of women murdered at the hands of a spouse, lover, boyfriend, or companion.
The name calling (c**t, bitch, whore), the violent yelling and animal-like grunting and heavy audible respiratory patterns, the irrational comments, exaggerated claims and blame ( that he has no money- none of the 900 million dollars he allegedly has, because he spent it all on her) pushing, the hitting(allegedly damaging her teeth), lack of empathy (telling her she deserved it when she complained of his violence) the degrading control (demanding oral sex from her even though they were in conflict) life endangering threats (to burn the house down and to hit her head with a bat) are only a step away from killing a person.
If you think this seems far fetched, think again. This is EXACTLY what happened to Nicole Brown Simpson. This is EXACTLY what happened to millions of women who die each year at the hands of men they are either living with or married to. This is EXACTLY what happens to women all over the world regardless of race, religion, culture, ethnic background, financial status, occupation, or physical appearance.
WHO ARE THE ABUSERS WHO CAN KILL?
Anyone who exhibits the patterns that Mel Gibson exhibited can kill! It doesn’t matter how rich or famous they are, if they have displayed the patterns that Mel displayed, they can definitely kill. Now I am not accusing Mel of being a murderer, but if someone is that consistently enraged and out of control as we have heard Mel to be, then anything is possible.
He may be so angry that he could strike a blow, hitting her in the head, causing a subdural hematoma where she would bleed into her brain, thus tragically ending her life.
The verbally violent tapes we have heard are not of just one conversation. They are of many conversations he had over time with Oksana. The red flag here is that Mel does not change his violent tone during any of the many different conversations we have heard.
There is no point where his anger and rage is diffused. It is consistent and whenever you hear consistent rage like this that escalates, it indicates that danger is imminent.
Men who are control freaks, silent but deadly erupting volcanos, arrogant condescending know it alls often turn into both emotional and physical abusers.
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